For The Guys

Your partner calls and says, “I think I’m pregnant.” Four words that may feel like it will change your life forever. Time stands still.

Maybe what you need right now is a trusted guy to help process your thoughts; someone outside your circle of friends, family, co-workers, and someone who will listen from a neutral position. 

True Choice has trusted  male advisors who are available to help you navigate your unique  situation and offer solutions based on your needs.

You might be

  • Stunned
  • Speechless
  • Worried
  • Angry

You might be thinking

  • I’m not ready
  • I don’t know how to be a father
  • How can I afford a baby?
Couple on mountain looking off into the distance. Nice view.

Here are a few steps to making the best choice for both of you – together.

  1. Confirm the pregnancy at True Choice Medical Clinic.

  2. Potentially offer to go with your partner to the appointment​.

  3. Listen to her thoughts & feelings. What excites her? What does she fear?

  4. Share your thoughts & feelings. If you aren’t sure how to start, say something like “when you told me you might be pregnant, I felt ____, because ____. Now that I’ve had time to think about it, I hear what you are saying. , I feel ____, because ____.” Consider talking with others who are close to you too.

  5. Let her know how important she is to you. Don’t pressure her about the pregnancy or check out. Instead, commit to exploring your options together and getting whatever help you need to make your relationship better than ever.

Fatherhood Program

President Barack Obama said in his Father’s Day speech in 2008,
“What makes you a man is not the ability to have a child - it’s the courage to raise one.”

The Brothers in Arms program exists to equip guys to be fathers.

Our program consists of

Pairing you with a male coach to advise, encourage, challenge and equip you to be a loving father and partner.
We provide evidence-based videos on topics such as:
  1. Financial Management

  2. How to be a role model to your child

  3. The kind of father you’d like to be

  4. Consistency

  5. Respecting your partner

The program is designed to meet once a week with your male coach to watch the video, and then a time for discussion and question/answer session.
Each session you attend, you earn “points” you can use to earn gift cards to stores like Target, Walmart, Grocery stores, etc.